拿得起放得下，是举重；拿得起放不下，是负担。很遗憾，很多恋爱中的人负着沉重的担。
9.I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是在你面前我会是谁。
10.When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love.
年幼时，你可能渴望多段感情经历。但是随着年龄渐长，你会意识到当你真正爱一个人时，一辈子的时间都不够用来爱她，因为你需要时间去了解、去原谅、去深爱。
